Have you had those moments now finally arrrghh with your teen? Bienvenido Al Club! It is not the only parent who despairs with the problems of today’s teenagers. Always keep in mind that nobody taught us how to educate their children and that Ud is learning and growing with them. It is normal. Anyone who is the problem of your teen, whether emotional, conduct or family problems, do not be discouraged, there is always a solution. When the first problems arise in adolescence, normally the parents react with restrictive measures.
Concerned about the welfare of their children, they exert their authority to have more control over their lives. Although these measures may be effective, especially in the case that his son run risk of damage, they are not always the most appropriate. It is sometimes wiser to operate in a different way. First than anything, try to understand his son. If he or she has a disturbing behavior, it must not to focus only on the annoying thing is his attitude. It is only the external manifestation of a much larger problem. In the same way that it is useless to boot the leaves of a weed to eliminate it, you must go to the root of the matter.
Many of the problems in our teenagers nowadays lie in lack of time on the part of the parents. This is because one of the things that has suffered in our busy world today, is the family. Many households today have only a father and, if they are the two, both parents are working. It is a reality that sometimes we can’t change, but yes it helps us to be aware of its negative impact on our family. This way we can minimize the damage that our lifestyle may be causing our children. Leverage any time to be with your teen. For this stage of his life as a parent that is only a couple of years if well think about it is best to leave other side activities and focus on your child, especially if it has problems. You have a few years to make a difference in your child’s life. It is better that take advantage of them. A couple of hours per week can make a difference in the sky to the ground for his child’s life. Remember that you always premium quality over the amount of time. Take time to talk with your teen. Accompany their activities and get involved in your life. Doing so with a genuine interest in his life, he or she is going to open and it is soon going to find having the most incredible conversations with your teen. There goes the way. Not frighten with their hairstyles, tattoos, piercing, or ways of dressing. It is more important what is happening in the heart of your child than what is happening on the outside. The external changes, but the heart can have injuries, fears and insecurities which will be detrimental to your future life. Focus on that. Understand that the differences of opinion that has your teen are normal and necessary. His son is developing its own personality and sometimes manifest in a clumsy and immature way, but need to express it. In those moments of love and understanding language is much more powerful than the authority and control.